and is that my dad don't worry about him driving he really shouldn't be behind the wheel it's your dad all right oh dear what's wrong there's a new dent a big one oh no it's like it's like he parks by feel these days at least he doesn't drive very fast Bruce he drives a thirty-year old Cadillac it weighs more than our house what if something should happen I know I know would feel awful [Music] Oh stupid teenagers well what happened yeah I went to the market to get some animal crackers for the grandkids you know how much it's like them even though they spend too much time in front of the TV I told your sister dad we were talking about the teenagers oh yeah well anyway I carefully parked Old Betsy let's see that's my car and my generation we named our cars you take more responsibility yet we were talking about the teenagers oh yeah well anyway when I came back she had a big dent in her and you think the teenagers did this I've seen them racing up and down Main Street a bunch of hoodlums maybe it's gang-related dad We Need to Talk I know I know the cars they gonna be but a few Nicks and scratches don't matter that much over the long run what matters is this betsy gets me this go out buy things for the grandkids it'll give him a treat surprise him a run down to the VFW prism bingo even visit old Charlie at the wrestle so don't worry about Old Betsy kids were both Shona wear-and-tear these days what matters most she gives me my freedom and without that what's the point of living facing a crucial conversation vital smarts can help [Music] you